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Wednesday, May 22, 2019

Bargain Hunting 101

During my reading time this week, I came across a list of bargain hunting tips I thought were quite good. The following are from Aged to Perfection: adding rustic charm to your modern home inside and out.

  • Visit destinations frequently --I have found this to be quite a major factor. As I have been making regular trips to the thrift stores near me, I have not only found that I am less likely to buy something before it goes on sale (saving me some money!), but also that I have a better sense of what a good deal actually is at the thrift stores. Also, many thrift stores put out new items daily, so if there is something specific you are looking for, frequency can improve your chances of success. 

  • Build relationships with stores and dealers: So far, I haven't really tried this one out. The idea is that as you go to thrift stores or antique dealers frequently, you can get to know them and build a relationship where they would be excited to call you up and let you know when they get just the right item in. At the thrift stores I go to, I can't quite see panning out, but who knows? --Right now, I'm pretty sure it's more like they see me walk in and think, "here's that crazy glassware lady that always uses up our newspaper supply". 

  • Travel further afield: There is much to be said for the grand adventure of buying trips. This is true with antique shops as well as thrift stores. People who live in different areas tend to have different things to donate or sell, so a trip to a shop in a different area can yield some surprising and refreshing results. For example: I recently went to an antique shop with my sister in Olympia, WA where I found some beautiful Spode pieces that I had never run across at the stores near where I live. 
Just a few tips for my fellow bargain-hunters. I hope they are helpful! 

Now, please post your bargain-hunting tips in the comments for the rest of us to learn from! 

Wednesday, May 15, 2019

A Feel for Quality: The Unexpected Benefit to Family Antiquing


My childhood memories abound with the old and historical. For years, my family volunteered at a living history farm (click here for a link!) where from infancy I was surrounded by the family’s antiques and heirlooms, including a small bedroom in the old log house which was full of old toys (which since have been redistributed amongst the upstairs bedrooms). I still remember sitting side by side with my friend (who was a descendant of the family who built the house) in the old cast iron car with pedals that really made it go. We only pretended we were using said pedals, because there was really no room to move the car without breaking things. We had many hours of enjoyment, too, over the kitchen tools in an adjoining display, and many a “sick” playmate was nursed back to health with the fruits of our imaginary culinary experiments. 

There were always surprises when we played in those upstairs rooms. Some were more pleasant than others. I will forever remember the day we lifted the roof of the dollhouse only to find a mouse's nest inside… I never played with the dollhouse again after that. But there were interesting and delightful ones as well. My favorite surprises were the things like the old container of “black face” stashed among the kitchen wares (still in its original cardboard box) which somehow felt like holding a piece of history in my very hand. (A scene from a Shirley Temple movie came to mind when I realized what it was.)

Looking back, it amazes me how many of my memories had to do with the feel of things. For example, I can close my eyes and envision the railing of the old, narrow, short-treaded stairway; and instantly I recall the smoothness of the worn banister, which was really the trunk of some young tree devoid of bark and affixed there for the purpose. Whether the smoothness came about from years of use or many coats of varnish, I could never tell. I also remember the way my fingers would lift the catch of the secret drawer in one of the old chests of drawers and push it out, to the amazement of any small children in the groups of visitors I would show it to.
               
One time, I was at a different historical site, and a very nice lady showed me how to spin on her antique Great Wheel. She pointed out to me that the wood was worn from all those years of fingers touching the spokes to turn the wheel and spin the wool into yarn. It was that day that I realized that history wasn’t just in knowing about events or even seeing historical things. History can be experienced with all our senses, whether it’s the taste of buttermilk fresh from the churn with little lumps of butter still in it, the smell of burning lamp oil, the warmth that radiates off those same dim oil lamps on a rainy spring day, or the feel of wood smoothed by generation after generation of use.
               
 The unexpected benefit of being surrounded by antiques as a child is that now I seem to have a knack for spotting antiques or things of value. Of course, one of my family’s favorite activities when I was growing up was to go to antique stores (actually, it’s still a favorite thing for my parents and I to do together on a Saturday). So there is at least some explanation for my being able to recognize antiques, but I have noticed that the primary way I can tell if something is actually old is by the feel of it.
                 
For example, I recently brought home an oil lamp chimney from the thrift store, which I knew was the right shape for my older lamp; but I knew it was probably a modern reproduction, except I couldn’t tell why I thought that until I got home. I walked over to one of our antique lamps which had exactly the same shape and felt the top rim. I instantly knew why my recent purchase seemed newer. It was because the glass was thicker and sturdier with a very little bit of a lip around the edge to round it over. The old ones are made of thinner glass and come to an abrupt edge without any kind of rounding over. (Or at least, the antique shade we have at my house is that way. I have yet to discover a definitive source for learning about lamp shades.)
                 
This newfound ability to recognize antiques has become useful, as I have begun selling antiques or other beautiful things on eBay. There have been many times when I have seen something in the store and thought, “I don’t know why, but I think that’s old”. When I find myself thinking along those lines, I pull out my phone and look whatever it is up online to see if it really is; and nine times out of ten, it is old and more valuable than I would have guessed. In every case so far, when I have thought something was a particular type of antique, which I had had no prior experience with, it has always turned out to be so.

Of course, credit for this ability in no way belongs to me. There are so many stories I could tell about things I have found that I never would have known even to be interested in. It is quite clear that the ability is from the Lord, not from anything of my own doing. He has, however, used this new eBay endeavor to make me realize the value of the “hands-on” education in antiques I was given as a child.

So, the moral of the story is: teach your children to be careful, but let them touch things sometimes. (And with permission of the owners, of course!) Read up on antiques, find a few inexpensive things to have in your home that are actually old, and have your children hold them, dust or clean them,or just play with them carefully. All those things are building an aptitude to recognize and appreciate the quality and age of the antique objects they come across in their later lives.

In the log house on the farm I mentioned above, there were some cast iron banks. One or two were actual antiques. The others were reproductions, but they were all fun to play with. We used to spend hours setting the banks, putting a penny in, and with great anticipation pressing the button to make them work. Each time we were just as delighted at the result as if we had never seen it before! These made a sturdy introduction to antiques but were old enough (at least, some of them,) to need the small amount of carefulness a small child is capable of.

Things like cast iron banks, a genuinely old and use-worn piece of woodwork, or even a set of old marbles can help develop a feel for the quality of older things without putting your most treasured antique heirlooms at risk. 

Remember, you never know what knowledge and abilities God might be developing in you or your children. He even uses trips to the antique store for His glory and our good!
               


Friday, May 10, 2019

Book Review- Southern Lady: Gracious Spaces







I always look forward to Tuesday afternoons. In the short two hours between teaching piano lessons and my evening activities at church, I grab a quick bite to eat, and then sit somewhere comfy with a good book. This is a habit I began when I was in the midst of the homework-every-spare-moment phase of college, but I grew to love the study time (particularly on warm days, sitting curled up in my car with the windows rolled down and a beautiful tree with sun-filled leaves to look at). 

Now that my college days are over, I have found the old routine quite relaxing, especially since I now get to study whatever I want, with no deadlines or grades to worry about! For example, right now I have been getting books from my local library about interior design, which is how I stumbled across the lovely little book Southern Lady: Gracious Spaces by Phyllis Hoffman.

 I had initially planned to scan quickly through the book, taking notes here or there as needed, but as I read the first few pages, I realized this was going to be a serious note-taking book. In fact, when I got to the back and saw all the helpful questions on the design worksheets, I decided to go online to Amazon.com and order myself a copy! (click here to find it!) 

In her opening remarks, the authoress points out that home should be a refuge where one can find rest and solitude. She encourages her readers to begin with what they love and gild the room with love, not just things. One of my favorite quotes from the book is "If you love something, wallpaper your life with it." When I read that, I was immediately caused to stop and think about the ways in which I was doing this as I have collected things for my eventual home, and it brought to mind some ideas of ways in which I could incorporate more of what I enjoy into my design schemes as I collect things now. 

Case in point: Staffordshire dogs... You know those often-creepy-but-classic china dogs that grace the fireplace mantles of so many English-style homes? Well, I think some of the homes I spent time in as a child must have had some, because I have always thought it would be nice to own some. I have always felt at home in English country-style rooms, and so with wallpapering one's life with what I love in mind, I saved a search on Staffordshire china dogs on eBay and I am currently waiting for just the right deal on just the right china dogs (of the non-creepy variety). 


Pair of Antique English Staffordshire Ceramic Dogs For Sale

 



But back to the book... 




There are many practical ideas and lots of good information for the beginner who knows nothing about organization or design, (i.e., people like me!) but the authoress does make a point to bring out the fact that beauty has a purpose in a home, and practicality and beauty need to walk hand-in-hand if a home is to be a place of refuge and rest. Let's face it, if a space is practical, but you hate everything in it, how restful can it be? 

Another topic the authoress touches on is hospitality. This is where I came across my other favorite quote from the book: "Opening our homes to others is a pleasure, and an opportunity to make another feel comforted and cared for." Seeing hospitality as a way to comfort and care for others really resonated with me. I'm a serving others sort of person... I secretly think I would have enjoyed waiting tables if teaching hadn't worked out... and to see hospitality as a way to serve down to the smallest details makes it much more of a priority to me. 

There is so much more in this book, but I want you all to have something to discover for yourselves when you read it, so I won't tell any more. :) I do heartily recommend the book as worth a read, though! 

Monday, May 6, 2019

A Stationary Place

Last week, my Sunday School teacher was teaching about the cloudy pillar and how it was used by God to guide His people. One of the applications he made resonated with me, and I thought perhaps you might benefit from it as I did.

In bringing some practical principles from the manner of God's leading the Israelites on their journey to the Promised Land, my teacher stated an obvious fact which I had never really thought about: Some times, God led the Israelites to a place for the purpose of staying awhile. These stationary places were always for a purpose, and the parallel can be aptly made to God's leading in our lives.

Though the manner of God's leading is different for us than for the Israelites (I haven't seen any cloudy pillars around lately), the fact of His leading is nevertheless the same. Just like the Israelites, sometimes God leads us to places in life where we are to pitch our tents and stay awhile.

I think I am in one of those stationary places, and have been for a little while, and for the most part I am enjoying the benefits and blessings of this stage of life, but just like with any stage of life, some days it's just hard.

It was in the aftermath of one of those particularly hard days that the statement about stationary places came to mind. It made me stop and acknowledge that yes, I was struggling, not with the place I'm camped in, but the fact that I'm still here with no change in sight.

This thought was discouraging at first, but then the Holy Spirit tugged on my heart, reminding me that there can be no joy in following unless I am surrendered to the wisdom of God's guidance.

Imagine the absurdity of going to a country you had never been before, joining a tour group, and spending the whole time saying to your neighbors: "I don't know about this route... I mean, I 've never been here before, but I'm sure we should have taken that road over there... it looks far more suitable to me."

Yet, that's exactly the absurdity of my inward bemoaning of my stationary place. I was behaving just like a little child, impatiently tugging at her parent's sleeve and saying, "Come on, let's go!"

That gentle call to surrender prompted me to humbly acknowledge that God is my Guide, and I can trust His leading, however long His loving hand might require me to stay still.

I must admit that my long talk with the Lord about this didn't change the circumstances that had made the day so difficult, and it still felt hard, but at the same time, I could take those feelings to God and rest in the peace of knowing that this was what God in His infinite and loving wisdom had chosen for me, and that, dear reader, has made all the difference.

After all...

There is no true joy without surrender.