Monday, September 6, 2010

Gentling Influences Part 3: Attitude

Mommy and I were at a store today when I found this mug.


Attitudes can be quite contagious.Have you ever noticed how when one family member is in a bad mood, everyone else quickly joins them? I seem to be particularly susceptible to bad attitudes.It is so important for us as ladies to keep a good attitude. If we easily "catch" the grumps of others, our homes will soon be full of contention, anger, and selfishness.

I recently realized that a bad mood is actually just selfishness. Think about it. What usually sets off a bad mood? It is usually some mistreatment or neglect (real or percieved) directed towards ourselves by another. Of course, things of a serious nature do need to be dealt with, but are we holding onto the little things that don't even matter? Even if another is grumpy, we do not have to join them. We have a choice whether or not to be selfish!

You know, a good attitude is just as contagious as a bad. Mommy and I have a game we play when driving through road work areas. We have noticed that the "flaggers" almost always look decidedly grumpy, with either a frown or a scowl on their faces, so one day, we decided to try to make the flagger smile. As we drove by, we smiled at her and waved a thank you. She smiled and waved back! And after that we have always tried to make the flaggers smile as we drive by.

That game works in our homes as well. Just as one bad attitude can cause the whole household to be grumpy, one with a determined good attitude can completely reverse it!

~Try it and see!

2 comments:

  1. I agree, Gwennie! 100%!
    Actually that reminds me of a quote by Victor Borge:
    “A smile is the shortest distance between people.”

    Smiles and good attitudes are SO important. It’s funny because you always remember someone’s smile. I try to smile a lot when teaching, speaking, and just interacting with people in general. I think it makes them feel special. I know that's what I think when people smile... :)

    Again, that is great!

    ~Bethany

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